Seventy Years of Grace: A Lifetime Under Your Gaze – Happy Birthday Pujya Gurudev

Pujya Gurudev, My humble Pranams to you 🙏

On the grand, historic occasion of your 70th Birthday, my heart overflows with deep gratitude. Looking back at nearly three decades of walking this path, a beautiful journey of documenting a lot of lessons, moments, and events on my blogsite, I realize that every word I have written has been silently guided by your grace.

When Adarneeya PM Narendra Modi ji called on Pujya Gurudev Sri Sir Ravi Shankar ji

My journey with you did not begin with immediate, blind faith. Like many who pride themselves on analytical reasoning, I initially approached the spiritual realm with a guard of heavy skepticism. I looked for proof, relied strictly on logic, and questioned the intangible. Yet, you patiently and subtly showed me that life’s deepest truths lie just beyond the boundaries of intellect. You didn’t ask me to drop my rationality; instead, you effortlessly expanded it, transforming my rigid skepticism into a deep, experiential spirituality. Moving beyond mere logic, I realized that true faith isn’t about shutting your eyes to reality but opening your heart to a larger dimension of existence. Read that story here

When people ask what it is like to sprint alongside a Master who moves at the speed of light, I point them to the massive expansions we have witnessed. From the intimate amphitheatre, Narayana Hall or old Kitchen of the ashram before 2003 or so, to the magnificent Vishalakshi Mantap and the new Amphitheatre, and then to the sea of humanity packing Gurupaduka Vanam for Maha Shivaratri, the scale always leaves us breathless. Watching millions gather at the World Culture Festival on a seven-acre stage, or witnessing over a hundred thousand voices sing in perfect harmony during Naada Vaibhavam, taught me a profound truth about you: while the world sees massive logistical chaos, you effortlessly turn it into perfect, divine precision. When the world asks if we believe in miracles, we simply smile and remember your words: “We not only believe, we rely on miracles.” But your greatest miracle hasn’t just been conceptualising, guiding or blessing mega-events,  it is the quiet transformation within our everyday lives.

As a professional navigating a career spanning nearly four decades, your wisdom became my anchor. It was through observing you that I discovered the true essence of “Spiritualising Work and Humanising Workplace.” You taught me that spirituality isn’t a retreat into laziness or an escape from responsibilities; it is the ultimate energy source that allows us to work harder and more effectively without burning out. Because of you, I learned to clear the mental cobwebs, access intuition, and practice true equanimity, understanding that success is ultimately “a smile that no one can snatch away.” You showed us how to move past labels, titles, and workplace stresses to recognize the human family underneath.

The way you sharpen and appreciate our work is often filled with your profound, unpredictable play of wisdom. I will never forget the moment I handed you a summary of a complex Himachal Pradesh court order. You went through this 1 page summary and to my utter shock, you looked at me in front of a whole bunch of people and announced, “This guy Suresh, does nothing great or dramatic.” A heavy silence fell all around (in front of Kashyap); everyone was completely stunned and started casting sympathetic looks my way.

That Unforgettable day!!!

But then, in your classic, customary style, you took a small pause, smiled, and added, “He does no great things, but does small things perfectly.” The atmosphere instantly shifted from tension to pure grace. I am simply unable to forget that moment, it remains the biggest, most treasured certificate of my life.

That Twist of Ears ❤️

You gave us the ultimate shelter in the form of Satsang. In a world full of noise, you built a nest where our minds could finally rest. You gave us the beautiful formula of Gaana, Dhyana, Gyaana, and Khaana—a sacred space that consistently touches the heart, douches the mind, fills the spirit, and stills the intellect. Through the chanting of the Guru Puja, you didn’t create thought-clones of yourself; instead, you patiently guided us to recognize the Guru Tattva, the eternal essence of wisdom hidden within our own selves. You taught us the real Art of Living: the strength to “DROP IT” and move on. You showed us that holding onto negativity only numbs us to inaction, while dropping the burden of expectations every single moment keeps us fresh, recharged, and ready to grow. You taught us to look at this planet not as a block of sand and stone, but as a living, vibrant entity that responds to our care, inspiring us to clean rivers, plant trees, and serve humanity.

Your protection has not just wrapped around my work and mind, but has deeply enveloped my entire family, generation after generation. I will never forget that unforgettable moment near the Narmada Tank on the hilltop, when you held my young son Vishnu’s hands, gently holding his hands and guiding him to cut his birthday cake. At that moment, looking at the pure grace unfolding, I turned to my wife and everyone around us and said with absolute certainty, “My son is in the safest hands.” I told my boy then that the true significance of that picture would only be understood much later when he grew up. Today, as he navigates his life as a postgraduate student, those words have come full circle. He realizes it now. The grace that held his tiny hands on the hilltop continues to guide and shield his steps today.

In Safest Hands of the World – Vishnu guided by the Guide to cut the cake

Your boundless love similarly shaped my daughter Akhila’s life, encouraging her to soar. When she was given the immense platform to perform a Bharatanatyam recital during the sacred days of Navaratri in the Ashram, your eyes showered her with immense encouragement. The way you showered her with praise afterward, specifically showering compliments on her amazing, vivid expressions (abhinaya) during the performance, is a memory etched into her heart forever.

Blessings come along for lucky one and We considers ourselves luckiest. Divya with her Guru Arpane

Years later, when she made the deeply personal decision to marry the person of her choice, you stood by her choice like a pillar of support, ordering us to stand by her decision and that He was certain she would do great, filling her path with abundant blessings at every single step.

The circle of this divine love beautifully expanded when we brought our next generation, our grandson Anay, to receive your blessings. Watching the Master of millions transform into a completely playful, joyful presence just to interact with little Anay was the absolute best part of our journey, a moment of pure, unadulterated bliss.

Reminded me of His advise – To be Happy, Be Childlike, not Childish

Year after year, on every single birthday and wedding anniversary, Aparna and I have had the ultimate fortune of standing before you, receiving your personal blessings and taking home memorable mementoes that we treasure as sacred tokens of your love.

Milestones becomes Extra Special
Moments that We Cherish

On this auspicious milestone of your 70th Birthday, as we look at how securely, lovingly, and beautifully you have held our entire family, Aparna and I consider ourselves truly the luckiest human beings in the world.

Looking back at these seventy magnificent years of your life, it becomes overwhelmingly clear that your journey on this planet has been a monumental gift to mankind. You have walked among us not just as a teacher, but as a living bridge between ancient wisdom and modern life, untangling the complexities of human existence with an effortless smile. From leading massive peace negotiations to healing broken hearts, from inspiring global waves of selfless service to creating a stress-free, violence-free world, your footprint on earth has elevated human consciousness itself. Every river revived, every tree planted, every mind comforted, and every soul awakened stands as a testament to your tireless devotion to the planet. On this historic milestone, we bow down in absolute awe and reverence. On behalf of all mankind, and indeed the entire creation that has pulsated with greater joy under your gaze, we offer our deepest, endless gratefulness for the privilege of walking this earth at the same time as you.

Thank you, Pujya Gurudev, for teaching us to move from the rigidness of “This should be” to the ultimate, meditative freedom of “Let It Be.” We offer our gratitude, our seva, and our smiles at your lotus feet today and always.

Dice, Deficiency, Diet & Divinity – Annapoorna Jayanti

O! Maa Annapoorneshwari! renderer of the support of compassion, the bestower of eternal happiness, the donor of gifts and protection, the ocean of beauty, the destroyer of all sins and purifier, the great goddess, the purifier of the family of Himavan, and the great deity of Kasi, grant us alms.

Maataannapoorneshwari

Bharat is a land that celebrates everything and everyone in the creation. Our Puranas ensured the significance of being grateful for everything that we possess and not possess. The celestial drama surrounding the importance of sustenance & nourishment culminates in the joyous observance of Annapoorna Jayanti, celebrated each year on the full moon day of the Hindu month of Margashirsha. Agrahayana or Margashirsha is the ninth month of the Hindu lunar calendar and the name of the month is derived from the position of the Moon near the Mrigashīrsha nakshatra (star) on the full moon day. This day honors the embodiment of nourishment, Goddess Annapoorna, a compassionate manifestation of Parvati. Her very name, derived from ‘Anna’ (food) and ‘Poorna’ (full or complete), defines her role as the divine provider.

The story begins with a playful, yet consequential, game of dice between Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati. Fueled by excitement, their friendly wager escalated until Shiva, repeatedly losing, eventually gambled away every possession, even his symbolic trident and the serpent that adorned him. Humiliated and destitute, Shiva sought the counsel of Lord Vishnu. Following Vishnu’s advice, Shiva returned to the game and, to Parvati’s astonishment, won everything back.

Shiva-Parvati Playing Dice

Suspicion turned into accusation. Parvati, disbelieving her husband’s sudden reversal of fortune, called him a cheat. The ensuing argument prompted Vishnu to reveal that the course of the game was a matter of divine will, an illusion (maya), orchestrating their moves. Shiva seized upon this revelation, dismissing all worldly possessions, including the very food that sustains life, as mere maya. This assertion deeply angered Parvati. To her, equating food with illusion was to dismiss her divine presence. To demonstrate the fundamental error in his cosmic view, the Goddess vanished from the world, adopting her form as Annapoorna.

Her disappearance brought about an immediate and catastrophic change. Nature itself came to a standstill: the seasons ceased, the land grew barren, and a devastating famine swept across the universe. Gods, demons, and humans alike suffered crippling hunger, their desperate prayers echoing through the void.

Seeing her own children suffer, compassion welled up in the heart of Parvati and she came to the earth, in Varanasi (Kashi), and set up a kitchen where she served all those who came to her for nourishment. Seeing this, Shiva took the form of a mendicant and went to her asking for alms. Parvati recognised Shiva and was happy to see her Lord. Lord Shiva finally grasped the depth of his error—that the physical body and the spirit it housed required nourishment, and that without Shakti (the feminine power, Parvati), he was incomplete. Humbled, he appeared before Annapoorna with a skull for a begging bowl and accepted alms from her hands.

Art of Living‘s Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar ji says, “The dancer and the dance cannot be separated, so also the creator and his creation”. Shiva lovingly told Parvati, “This world and you are verily a part of me. The world is as illusory as the dance, neither real nor unreal. One does not try to understand a dance—you simply rejoice in it”. Anna refers to ‘food’, poorna is ‘fullness’. When you eat food, you can immediately experience contentment and fullness at the gross level. Similarly, anna daana, meaning offering of food, brings contentment in the other person who receives the offering. These glimpses of fullness and contentment can be expressed through other actions as well. Whenever you taste that contentment, it takes you to a higher state of consciousness. An unfulfilled person cannot reach the higher states.

It was on the auspicious full moon day of Margashirsha that the Goddess returned to bestow her life-giving presence upon the world. Thus, Annapoorna Jayanti is observed on this day to eternally honor the deity who ensures humanity is never deprived of food.

As the divine steward of nourishment, Mother Annapoorna is traditionally depicted holding a golden ladle and a jeweled bowl overflowing with rice, seated on a majestic throne. This image is a perpetual reminder of her bountiful grace and the sacredness of sustenance.

On this special day, devotees observe rituals that emphasize purity and gratitude. The kitchen, the heart of the home’s sustenance, is meticulously cleaned and sanctified with Ganga water. Special worship is offered to the domestic stove, and devotees honor both Shiva and Annapoorna, knowing that their combined blessings ensure the perpetual flow of food and water in the household. Cooking without onion or garlic and performing acts like Annaabhishekam (offering rice to the sustainer of life) are revered ways to connect with the divine mother’s abundant energy.

Bow down to Mother Annapoorna, you the Eternally Complete (with the gift of Food and Blessings), You Who are the Beloved of Shankara, O Mother Parvati, Please grant me the Alms of Your Grace, to awaken within me Spiritual Knowledge and Freedom from all Worldly Desires.

Rituals & Vidhana

  • Devotees may observe a full or partial Upavasa (Fasting).
  • Many follow a simple diet that includes fruits, milk and light meals.
  • Upavasa is observed with a calm mind and positive thoughts.
  • Upavasa is broken after evening prayers.
  • Upavasa on this day is believed to purify the mind and bring spiritual clarity.

Puja Vidhana

  • Clean the Puja Area
  • Install the moorti or photograph of Goddess Annapoorna on a wooden Peetha.
  • Light a Lamp with Ghee or Sesame Oil
  • Offer Arghya (water) in a copper or silver vessel.
  • Apply turmeric, kumkum and sandalwood paste on Devi’s Moorti.
  • OfferFresh flowers, rice, wheat and fruits as Naivedya
  • Prepare Prasada – simple vegetarian food such as rice, dal, vegetables or sweet dishes.
  • Chant Annapurna Ashtakam, Annapurna Stotra.
  • Perform Aarti
  • Distribute Prasada
Adishaktyatmaka Shree Annapoorneshwari Amma Temple, Horanadu, Karnataka

Onam Message – Celebrate Act not the Actor

Onam 2013 has turned out to be significantly different compared to the earlier ones that I have celebrated with friends and families in the past. A new insight as I was discussing with a lot of my friends who have contributed to my understanding of the festivities and rituals. A personal thanks.

Upfront a personal note

This may not be the traditional belief, but purely my take and hence pardon my ignorance in case of conflicts with my understanding – a word on what caused it would be highly appreciated.

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Our Chennai Days – With Sri Sukumaran and Family

While discussing with those who celebrate Thiruvonam (or simply Onam as it is popularly known) in a traditional way I could not help be awestruck realizing of the deeper significance of this Harvest Festival and the legend behind it.

Onam is celebrated over 10 days starting Attham (Hasta) Nakshatra in the month of Chingam (Solar Calendar followed in Kerala) and ends on Thiruvonam (Shravana) Nakshatra  (the 10th day) . It is also celebrated by some in the Coastal Karnataka with equal gaiety and pomp.

Mahabali was the King of Asuras, grandson of Prahlada, who despite being born as an asura was known as paragon of devotion to Bhagwan Vishnu. Mahabali was brought up under the tutelage and guidance of Prahlada from whom he imbibed the qualities of devotion and governance.

Mahabali Visits Art of Living Ashram :-) Panchakarma Centre
Mahabali Visits Art of Living Ashram 🙂 Panchakarma Centre

During Mahabali’s reign, the kingdom never saw poverty, crime or any societal ills and hence revered by his subjects. But Asura that he was, was not considered trustworthy and his ambition made him expand his kingdom and becomes Ruler of all the 3 worlds – an Asura ruler was against the laws of nature. Devas approach Bhagwan Vishnu for a solution and when Mahabali was performing Ashwameda Yaga, Bhagwan Vishnu appears in the form of a small brahmin boy (Vamana Avatara) and seeks to fulfill his desire as promised by the King during the Yaga. Upon which the righteous Mahabali offers to fulfill any demand that was placed by the boy who demands land covered by 3 steps.  Despite warnings from his Guru who foresaw disaster and had a vision that it indeed was Bhagwan Vishnu who appeared in this form to deprive Mahabali of all his belongings. But Mahabali who valued Maana (Honor) even at the cost of his life told his Guru: “I should be the most fortunate one as the Bhagwan, who gives everything to mankind, is seeking something from me.” So saying he offered to donate the Three steps that the brahmin boy sought. Vamana then grew in size so mammoth that one step covered the entire earth, the next the whole of Heaven and there was nothing left to claim for the 3rd step.  Mahabali the man of honor did not hesitate to offer his own head in lieu of land. Vamana steps on his head and sends him to Sutala, the heaven of Patala (the netherworld). It is believed that spot in which Vamana had sent Mahabali to Sutala is at Thrikkakara. The place where the holy feet (Trikkal) of Vishnu touched came to be known as Thrikkakara (Pictures of the Thrikkakara Vamana Moorthi Temple below)

Bhagwan Vishnu also appoints him as the King of Netherworld and also position of Indra for one Manvantara. Mahabali who loved his subjects very dearly also seeks Bhagwan Vishnu to allow him to visit them once every year. And it is this visit that is celebrated as Onam.

The festivities includes ceremonial welcome of Mahabali on the first day. Clay idols painted red (called Trikkakarappan, also called Onathappan) to which all the harvests are offered first thanking him for the Gift of abundance showered.

Trikkakarappan-Representing Vamana (Mahabali too)
Trikkakarappan-Representing Vamana

Maveli nadu vaneedum kalam,
manusharellarum onnupole
amodhathode vasikkum kalam
apathangarkkumottillathanum

(When Maveli ruled the land, All the people were equal. And people were joyful and merry; They were all free from harm.).  On the last day of Onam (Thiruvonam), the clay idols are immersed in sea/river with a prayer to Mahabali to return next year.

An essential part of the fesitiviy is laying out of the now famous & renowned flower rangoli called Pookalam. Some pictures below, the way we celebrated with friends

In Nasik - With Mr. Thomas (yes, it "was" secular)
In Nasik (Anything Non-Hindu here?)
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In Chennai – With Sri Sukumaran & Family

Traditionally each day the Pookalam gets bigger and the 10th day was the grandest one.  And this in itself was an enjoyable ritual for children, thanks to friends who celebrated it traditionally.

And then business part (for me) of any festival the famous, Onam Sadhya (Onam Feast)

Enjoying the Feast - With Sri Sukumaran
Enjoying the Feast – With Sri Sukumaran
Feast Next Year - With Sri Sukumaran & family in Chennai
Feast Next Year – With Sri Sukumaran & family in Chennai
The Sadhya... More items to come.
The Sadhya… More items to come This are just the sidies 😉

Other associated rituals and fesitivities include Pulikali (Tiger Dance), Thiruvathirakali (Women dancing in honor of Bhagwan Shiva), Kummattikali

Now that the fun part is done, for some deeper significance (May not be politically or even religiously correct but this is what the festival held out as learnings for me)

This festival is the best example of Sanatana Dharma tradition – Even an Asura who is a true Bhakta (devotee) is venerated – Goes to show that it is not the “Who” that matters but the “What”. Being an Asura did not preclude him from being worshipped, his virtues were recognized and aspired for. Which by extension also means there is no concept of Sinners – only people who commit acts of sin. Love or hate the “Act” not the “Actor” It is a value that I alway cherished & forms part of my introduction in the “About” page

Secularism (in true sense, it just means being a Hindu) was an essential part of our Festivals. It was all about revering and honoring the nature. Even the Mahabali song (in red above) indicates the Secular (Hindu way) character. Bharateeya Sanskriti never talks in terms of  “Tolerance” but in terms of “Acceptance” (A bane these days? I tend to think so). I celebrated Onam with Mr. Thomas and family in 1993 while living in Nasik (though it did not include the rituals that accompanies the celebrations, Sadhya was the motive). Not sure if the radicalized society that the state has become, still allows him such niceties

Idols made of clay (I was told it is traditionally made from the soil for the fields that sustains their livelihood) is honoring the land that gives us everything and the immersion of the clay idol finally is to signify whatever we take has to be restored back to nature.

WISHING EVERYONE A VERY HAPPY ONAM

PS: In the Mahabali picture is Sri Praseed an ashramite and an ardent follower of His Holiness Sri Sri Ravi Shankar ji of The Art of Living