Bheemana Amavasya – Honoring both Prakruti & Purusha

Introduction

ॐ नमः शिवाय भीमाशंकराय।
सह्याद्रिवासिने डाकिनीविनाशनाय॥

Bheemana Amavasye is the Amavasya or New Moon Day of Ashada month in the Hindu calendar, marking the final day of the month. Believers hold that on this sacred day Bhagwan Shiva was deeply moved by the devotion of Devi Parvati and accepted Her as His wife. The festival is widely celebrated as Bhimana Amavasya in Karnataka and many other states. It is also known as Pati Sanjeevini Vrata or Jyothi Bhimeshwara Vrata. People observe this festival for the well being and prosperity of all male members in a family.

The festival is dedicated to Bhagwan Shiva and Devi Parvati. Unmarried women pray for the good health and well being of their brothers, father, and all male relatives. Married women observe this vrata for the long life of their husbands. Married women carry out this ritual for nine consecutive years after marriage. In the ninth year, they gift a pair of sacred lamps to their brothers or a Brahmin.

Preparations and Puja Setup

Traditionally, women make two sacred lamps using Red Clay, believed to represent Kalikamba, or Thambittu wheat flour paste. One lamp symbolizes Bhagwan Shiva and the other represents Devi Parvati, who is worshiped as the Supreme Mother and the source of every other Devi. Devotees install these lamps on a bed of grains, typically Rice, facing east.

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Traditional Red Clay Lamps replaced with Silver ones

Puja begins by tying a Turmeric Root to the right lamp of the Deity picture, which is the lamp on our left as we face it, signifying Devi Parvati. The altar installation also incorporates representations of Surya Dev, Chandra Dev, and a sacred water pot called Kumbha.

Women light the lamps and offer a nine stranded thread called Gejje Vastra along with Sandal paste or Gandha, which is an essential offering for this puja. The sacred Tambula offering includes nine Betel leaves, nine Betel Nuts or Bettada Adike, and a fresh coconut.

Gowri Dhara

Women also place Gowri Dara or Rakshe, which is a thread smeared with Turmeric paste, alongside the Puja Samagri. Married women use a nine stranded thread with nine knots, while unmarried women use a five stranded thread with five knots. During Granthi Puja, women perform a specific puja for each strand with offerings, and female family members later tie these sacred threads around their wrists.

Puja and Rituals

After the mandatory Ashtottara Puja of Bhagwan Ganesh to remove all obstacles, devotees worship Bhagwan Shiva and Devi Parvati. Uma Maheshwara Ashtottara Puja is performed with devotion, and the Gowri Dara is tied around the wrists. At this stage the main part of the Puja is complete, and everyone pays respect to the lady performing the rituals.

All set. The main part of Puja done. Respects to this Lady
All set. The main part of Puja done. Respects to this Lady
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Daughter gets her Rakshe tied. Along with Blessings that None else can give her

Naivedya offerings include Karjura or Dates, Cosambari, and usual seasonal fruits. Families prepare traditional Kadubu filled with coins, staple food grains, and dry fruits, which is called Bandhara or Treasure Chest to symbolize abundance. Post puja, this Bandhara is placed on either side of the house threshold or Hosilu. Male family members crush these sweet cakes using their elbows, signifying an abundant flow of material and spiritual wealth into the home. Afterwards, the wife performs an Arati to her husband praying for his health and long life.

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I get an Arti today 🙂

Traditional Festive Feast

After the rituals comes the much awaited part of the festival, which is the grand feast. Typical items served at home include Chitranna or Lemon Rice, Cosambari, Groundnut Chutney Pudi, Midi Uppinakayi or Tender Mango Pickles, Appala or Pappad, Majjige Menasinakayi or Fried Curded Chilly, Hoorna Saaru or Rasam, and sweet Kaayi Holige or Obbattu.

Traditional Fare, Except Pappad which is usually not made on this festival
Traditional Fare, (except Pappad & Fried Curded Chillies) which is usually not made on this festival
The Batting Begins :-)
The Batting Begins 🙂

Legend of Susheela and Dead Prince

A pious Brahmin couple living in Saurashtra decided to undertake a pilgrimage to Kashi, as praying to Mahadeva there was considered a crucial lifetime duty. In those days, traveling to Kashi was a perilous journey, and people were never sure if they would return safely. Therefore, they decided not to take their young daughter Susheela along. They placed Susheela under the care of their married son and asked him to get her married and well settled in case they did not return from Kashi.

Years rolled by with no news or sign of the parents returning. The son and his wife were greedy to possess the family property and did not want to spend any money on getting Susheela married. In those times, it was a moral obligation and societal norm that the son inheriting property must shoulder the responsibility of marrying off his sisters.

During this period, Saurashtra was ruled by an able and righteous king named Vajrabahu. He had a son named Prince Jayasheela, who suddenly died due to a strange illness. King Vajrabahu was deeply worried about who would fulfill the ritualistic requirements of Tilodaka for his forefathers. The palace astrologer discovered a remedy and suggested marrying the dead prince off before cremation to keep the Pitrus satisfied.

King Vajrabahu made a royal proclamation across his kingdom that whoever agreed to marry the deceased prince would receive vast rewards including gold coins, a palatial home, agricultural land, and enough food grains to last three generations.

The greedy brother and his wife had no concern for Susheela and convinced her to accept the offer, arguing that she would become a Princess even if widowed right after marriage. They also emphasized that it would help the family financially and raise their status in society. Though Susheela resisted and pleaded desperately with her brother, he forced her to agree and took her to the King. The marriage was solemnized between the helpless Susheela and the dead Prince Jayasheela. The brother collected all royal rewards from the King and left.

Divine Appearance on the Bhagirathi Riverbank

Immediately after the wedding, King Vajrabahu, the newly wed Susheela, the army, and all courtiers took the prince body to the banks of River Bhagirathi for cremation. Susheela, decked in full bridal glory with Haridra Kumkuma or Turmeric and Vermillion, was asked to perform Agni sparsha and light the funeral pyre. Praying fervently to Maa Parvati and Bhagwan Parameshwara, she set fire to the pyre.

Providentially, torrential rain began to fall as soon as the pyre was lit. It rained incessantly and turned pitch dark with no signs of the storm subsiding. King Vajrabahu asked Susheela to return to the palace since she was now the princess, but Susheela refused, stating her place was with her husband, and she stayed back beside the body.

The King and the rest of the gathering left the young bride all by herself and returned to the palace. Susheela sat grieving beside her husband body in the dark forest. As fear set in, she began praying to Shiva Parvati, cursing her fate and thinking this tragedy would not have happened if her parents were present.

Susheela beseeched with tears, asking O Parameshwara, You have blessed Markandeya with immortality, restored life to Agni Manmatha, and blessed Shwetavahana and Brighu Putra Chyavana Rishi with long life. What sin have I committed to undergo this terrible situation. Please show some compassion towards me.

Bhagwan Shiva, who is always on the side of His devotees, appeared before her along with Maa Parvati. Susheela immediately sought the blessings of Sowbhagya, Sumangali, and Wealth.

Bhagwan Shiva Directives on Jyotirbhimeshwara Vrata

Bhagwan Shiva then told her that They would teach her a vrata to observe diligently with utmost sincerity. On the Amavasya Tithi of Ashada month, one must take a ritualistic bath, clean the Puja sthala, and install Uma Maheshwara on a Peetha or pedestal. On a heap of rice, one should install two Ghee Lamps to worship Him. Bhagwan Shiva explained that in such a lamp He resides as Ashtamurti.

As described in the Shiva Purana, Ashtamurti represents eight distinct attributes of Bhagwan Shiva. Sharva represents Earth holding the entire universe of mobile and immobile beings. Bhava represents Water which is the lifeline of the world. Rudra represents Fire symbolizing perfection and destroying all imperfections. Ugra represents Air holding the outer and inner universe and throbbing by itself. Bhima represents Ether pervading everything and affording space to all, whose decomposition results in groups of elements. Pashupati represents Soul supporting individual souls and breaking the bondage that encircles them. Ishana represents Sun brightening the entire universe and moving in the heavens. Mahadeva represents Moon whose nectar like rays strengthen and fatten the universe to satiety.

Bhagwan Shiva continued explaining that He exists in the lamp in its unbiased purest form. He added that alongside this lamp, another lamp must be kept with a Turmeric Stick attached to represent His consort, Shakti or Parvati. Because His favorite moon exists as part of Ashtamurti, His luminous form is also known as Bhimeshwara.

Bhagwan Shiva instructed her to assume the lamp as Himself and worship with utmost sincerity for nine years, offering Kadubu rice cakes, Sandalwood, and flowers, along with doing charity for Brahmins. He promised that after nine years her husband would certainly return to life and she would become Sowbhagyavati.

Miracle and Awakening of the Prince

Susheela had to manage with whatever was available around her in the wilderness. Instead of real rice cakes, she made Kadubu out of mud, created lamps from clay, used Banyan leaves as Betel leaves, and Banyan fruits as Betel nuts. She gathered wild grass to use as flowers and sincerely began her vrata vows.

While she was performing worship, a young couple arrived and expressed curiosity about her actions. Susheela explained her plight and misfortune. Since she was alone, there was no male member present to break the mud Kadubu. The young man offered to break the mud cake for her, and as he broke it he blessed her saying Dheegha Sumangali Bhava, meaning may you be a happily married woman for a long time and may your husband stay alive for your entire lifetime.

With a sad face Susheela smirked and asked how that was possible when her husband lay dead on the pyre. The young couple pointed toward the prince and told her that he was merely in deep sleep and asked her to wake him up. When Susheela looked at the prince, she was shocked to see him opening his eyes slowly as if waking from sleep. She could not believe her eyes, and when she turned around to thank the young couple, they had vanished.

Her puja bore fruit and the Prince was brought back to life. Susheela offered her heart felt gratitude to Uma and Maheshwara mentally and explained everything to her husband. Upon learning the news, King Vajrabahu was elated and rushed to the banks of Bhagirathi to see his son alive. He embraced the couple heartily and expressed immense gratitude to Uma Maheshwara. The King ensured that the glory of observing this vrata on Ashada Amavasya, known as Jyotirbhimeshwara Vrata or Bheemana Amavasye, was spread far and wide.

Continuing Traditions and Modern Observances

To this day, married and unmarried women worship Uma and Maheshwara on this day for the happiness, prosperity, and health of the men in their family. Married women also pray for a deep marital bond like that of Parvati and Shiva.

Another central tradition is preparing sweet Kadubu or Tambittu, made out of rice, peanuts, and chickpea flour with coins or jewels hidden inside. In the evening at the end of the vrata, male members break these cakes to retrieve the coins, a process known as breaking of Bhandara or treasure chest.

Bhandhara (Treasure Chest) – Tambittu with coins inside

May the blessings of Bhagwan Shiva be showered in abundance on everyone. This festival also launches month long Shravan Maasa Rudra Pujas and Satsangs conducted by the Art of Living Pundits, founded by His Holiness Pujya Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, across various locations. A friend named Sindhu under the handle agnyaa on Twitter has also written blog posts detailing Bhimana Amavasya.

The traditional sacred chant associated with this day is

Significance of Tilodaka and Tarpana

The sacred invocation chanted during this ritual is Vasurudraditya swaroopanam asmat Pitru Pitamaha Prappitamaha aavahayami.

Forefathers are believed to reside in Pitru Loka for some time after their death until they take rebirth, reach Deva Loka, or attain Mukti. Pitru Loka is inhabited by three generations of ancestors, namely Vasu representing Father, Rudra representing Grandfather, and Aditya representing Great Grandfather.

Pitru Loka is situated on the other side of the moon, which gets exposed to the sun only on Amavasya or New Moon day. This day marks the official meal time for Pitrus. All offerings made through Tarpana by descendants serve as the only source of nourishment to feed the Pitrus. If ancestors are left displeased, their curse is believed to affect the family line by preventing future male progeny.

Shivaratri – Union for Creation

It has been miracle galore as far as I am concerned (ever since I took my Art Of Living path seriously) – have repeatedly done 3 days of Absolute Blissful Silence (unthinkable for anyone who knows me) Rocks may absorb water, but Suresh can’t shut his gab would be their response, first up. It can be a fluke Once but remember! I did it so times now during my AOL’s Advanced Course. So it was by design and not by chance. Thanks to HH Sri Sri Ravishankarji life cannot get better (you can follow HIM on X (Formerly Twitter: https://x.com/Gurudev )

Now Now! hear me – another shocker! I am patting on my back as I am writing this. I concluded a day’s fasting successfully too last year. Again! people who know me would forward the same argument, Rock may absorb water but Suresh going hungry is a bigger Myth than those associated with Shivaratri. Anyways, I chose a great occasion of the holy Shivaratri to test my resolve. AOL Satsang teams rocked the city with melodious renditions of our Bhajans (I know it was enjoyed by the town because I have no reports of anyone receiving rotten eggs or chappals so far – nor did I get any ). Apart from the whole day’s fasting – I swear I had nothing but a few cups of TEA the whole day and night, I partook two Satsangs, 1 at a residence and another in a temple on the outskirts of the city (along with my Centre’s team).

This time my whole family was with me and my son so typical of him, stumped all of us asking us, “Why is it that none of our Boy Gods (he called it Boy God’s to mean Male God) have moustaches? All demons in my comics have Moustaches and look terrible” He was insisting me to knock my moutsaches off. Everyone around us were truly left speechless for a moment because, off hand the reply should have been, Bad Guys are shown with Moustaches – but for him his father was not bad (I agree with his views) For courtesy’s sake (and to my fortune) none replied to him that way.

And this Shivaratri (on 20th Feb 2012) with Gurudev Sri Sri Ravishankar being in Art of Living International Ashram is going to be very special with a Maha Sudarshana Kriya being directly guided by HIM. Don’t miss the Shivaratri special Satsang – an evening filled with Music, Knowledge and Fun 🙂

So the question was left open for the night. Early this morning he was pestering us for an answer and I promptly went and blogged on my favourite e-hangout (I am sure I will find the answers to his question as soon as people start seeing this).

While at it let me put out the significance of the festival (just a reproduction of what my friends Mrs and Mr. Hiremath of Mississuagua, Toronto sent me)

Shivaratri and Shiva

  1. Auspicious festival of Mahashivaratri falls on the 13th or the 14th night of the new moon during Krishna Paksha in the Hindu month of Phalgun.
  2. The Sanskrit term, Krishna Paksha means the period of waning moon or the dark fortnight and Phalguna corresponds to the month of February – March in English Calendar.
  3. Shivaratri Festival is celebrated on a moonless night (Chaturdashi to Amavasya).

According to Hindu mythology,

  1. Shivaratri or ‘Shiva’s Great Night’ symbolizes the wedding day of Lord Shiva and Parvati.
  2. Many however, believe, Shivaratri is the night when Lord Shiva performed the Tandava Nritya – the dance of primordial creation, preservation and destruction.

Celebrating the festival in a customary manner

  1. Devotees give a ritual bath to the Lingam with the panchagavya .
  2. Celebrations of Shivaratri Festival mainly take place at night.
  3. Devotees of Lord Shiva throng Shiva temples across the country and spend ‘the Night of Lord Shiva’ by chanting verses and hymns in praise of the Lord.

Shivaratri Pooja has been given tremendous significance in Hindu mythology. It is said that ritual worship of Lord Shiva on a Shivaratri day pleases Lord Shiva the most. Devotees further believe that by pleasing Lord Shankara on the auspicious Shivaratri day, a person is absolved of past sins and is blessed with Moksha or salvation.

Merits of Shivaratri Puja

According to Shiva Purana, sincere worship of Lord Shiva yields merits including spiritual growth for the devotees. It also provides extensive details on the right way to perform Shivratri Puja. Shiva Purana further says, Performing abhisheka of Shiva Linga with six different dravyas including milk, curds, honey, ghee, sugar and water while chanting Sri Rudram, Chamakam and Dasa Shanthi pleases Lord Shiva the most.

According to mythology, each of these dravya used in the abhisheka blesses a unique quality .

· Milk is for the blessing of purity and piousness.

· Yogurt is for prosperity and progeny.

· Honey is for sweet speech.

· Ghee is for victory.

· Sugar is for happiness.

· Water is for purity.

Besides, worship of Lord Shiva on Shivratri is also considered to be extremely beneficial for women. The festival holds special meaning for the ladies.

They pray to Goddess Parvati also called ‘Gaura’, the giver of ‘suhag’ for good husbands, marital bliss and a long and prosperous married life.

While, married women pray to Shiva for the well being of their husbands and sons, unmarried women pray for a husband like Shiva, who is considered to be the ideal husband.

What is significance of Shiva Linga—“The Linga is just a symbol, a sign, an illustration, of the beginningless, the endless, the limitless – for it has no limbs, no face, no feet, no front or back, no beginning or end. Its shape is like the picture one imagines the Niraakaara (Formless) to be. In fact, linga means – leeyathe (that in which all forms and names merge) and gamyathe (that towards which all names and forms are proceeding, to attain fulfillment). It is the fittest symbol of the All-pervasive, the All-knowing, the All-powerful”.

A blog of mine without a story? Impossible So here is a mythological story as to how this practice of Shivratri Vrat came about:

Once there was a hunter, and he one day went into the forest to procure meat for his family by hunting some animal. He wandered up and down in the forest from morning till night in search of game but was unable to shoot any. At last, when night overtook him, he climbed up a Bael tree to escape from a wild animal that was pursuing him, being roused from its lair by the hunter. The animal was lying down at the foot of the tree quite certain that the man would fall down either from sleep or from exhaustion, and that he might eat him. The hunter, exhausted as he was from his exertions and hunger, wished to scare away the animal by throwing handful of bael leaves. These leaves dripping with water on account of the recent shower, fell on a Siva-Lingam that was near. The night happened to be the Maha-Sivaratri night. He had fasted during the whole day since he could not find anything to eat. The drenching rain constituted a bath and his action of throwing the bael leaves on the Siva-Lingam, the wor­ship of Siva on the Sivaratri night. Though his actions were not intentional to worship Siva, yet he is said to have gained heaven as he had observed the Sivaratri – Vratha unwittingly.

The basic principle underlying the observance of the Maha-Sivaratri Vratha appears to be to emphasize the fact that death is sure to follow birth, night is sure to follow day,Pralaya, active cosmic life and so on, and consequently people should always bear in mind while enjoying the one its opposite and regulate their life accordingly. They should not be elated at success nor should they allow themselves to be carried away by despair at failures but always have trust in God and worship him.

PS: The photograph is of Lord Shiva in Banagiri Shri Siddhivinayaka Temple, Banashankari