Embracing the Opal’s Radiance every 1,07,22,24,000 moments

“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” — Robert A. Heinlein

Dearest Aparna,

Happiness evident – When we went to receive our son returning to India after 2.5 years

As we celebrate 34 years of marriage, I am in awe of the incredible journey we’ve shared. These 34 revolutions around the Sun have been filled with joy, challenges, laughter, and tears, all navigated hand in hand. You have been my rock, my confidante, and the love of my life. Celebrating 34 years of marriage with you is a testament to the strength and beauty of a lifelong partnership. Is this milestone just a number for us? No way, it represents years of shared experiences, unwavering support, and a deep bond that has only grown stronger with time.

Love is not about Both Looking at each other, but both looking in same Direction

Thank you for giving me a love so profound that I cannot imagine my life without it. You are the best thing that has ever happened to me and to everyone who is part of our lives. When someone asked me to pick the best moment of these 34 years – I knew they expected a different answer, but I also knew it was impossible to choose a single moment – I realized that 1,07,22,24,000 represents the countless moments of happiness we’ve shared, each one more precious than the last, that every single second with you has been a treasure.

The journey began 34 years ago when two hearts decided to embark on a life together in Dharwad on this day 34 years back and an unseasonal rain. Most of the anniversaries have been like that ever since – a surprise shower. Like in every Indian marriages, early years were filled with excitement and discovery as we navigated the newness of married life. From setting up our home to learning each other’s quirks and habits, these initial years laid the foundation for a strong and enduring relationship – it was a life lesson in action – Opposite values complement each other.

“Looking back, we realized early enough that marriage is a journey filled with love, challenges, growth, and countless memories. As in anyone’s our journey has not always been easy, but your unwavering support and calming presence have seen us through every storm. Even when the boat was rocked, you stood by us, offering reassurance and strength. Your love and dedication have been the foundation of our family, and I am forever grateful for your presence in my life.

His entry into the made family complete, just by himself. Yet another gift impossible with you

If I could go back to 31st March 1991 and relive these 34 years, I wouldn’t change a thing. I would choose you all over again, without hesitation. Your role as a mother, both to our biological and Manasik children, has been nothing short of extraordinary. You have been the silent strength, letting others speak while you listened with a heart full of love. Our journey together has been a testament to the power of love, commitment, and partnership.

No marriage is without its challenges, and ours is no exception. There were times when life tested your resolve, but each challenge only served to strengthen your bond. Whether it was navigating financial difficulties, health issues, or personal disagreements, we faced each obstacle together, never allowing anyone (yes, no one!!!) to crowd the relationship emerging stronger and more united. It was never always easy, but we made it work, together. You may not always see the glass as half full, but you have a unique way of making everyone around you believe in the impossible. For us, it has been a combination of love, respect, communication, and compromise. We have learned to appreciate each other’s strengths and accept each other’s flaws. We grew together, adapting to the changes that life brings and always finding new ways to support and uplift each other.

Our children, Divya and Vishnu, are the greatest testament to our love. They have grown into remarkable individuals, embodying the values and love we have nurtured in our family. Divya’s kindness and Vishnu’s strength are reflections of your unwavering dedication as a mother. Watching them grow and succeed has been one of the greatest joys of our lives, and I am grateful every day for the family we have built together.

The Quads – in thick and think of life

As we celebrate 34 years of marriage, it is also a time to look ahead to the future. There are still many adventures to be had, dreams to be pursued, and memories to be made. The journey is far from over, and with you by my side, I can face whatever the future holds with confidence and joy. What an incredible 41 years it has been since we first met, and 34 years as my beloved co-passenger in life. I am eternally grateful for you, my irreplaceable “better half.” Here’s to many more years of love, laughter, and togetherness.

Here is a the song as a tribute to you that was discovered a while ago and but bookmarked as a tribute to be posted today

Loads of love, Happy Opal Anniversary!

20454 & the Pleasant Math

As you got a year older and as we age and our hair get grey, it is stock take time – It is 20454 days, Yes! a cool 20.5K days that the rising sun has seen you and 14,593 days since we met. And even cooler 12,173 days since we decided to travel our lives together.

What a Journey it has been! Obviously amazing with a fellow traveler like you the journey has to be exciting. As you celebrate your 56th birthday, I am reminded of all the beautiful moments we’ve shared and the many more to come.

Rock Solid behind all of us whom you touched

You were not just my wife, or not just mother to wonderful children (both biological and manasik) but everyone’s best friend, confidante, and partner in every sense of the word. Your laughter (that rare one) is our favorite sound, and your smile can brighten even the gloomiest of days (even on days other than you birthdays).

I happened to see a Record breaking Gulab Jamun on the web. Here is the pic and could not but help recollect a Birthday that we ventured to make one ourselves.

Do you remember the time you decided to make Gulab Jamun for the first time on one of the birthdays (was it your 25th one?) We were so confident that we didn’t need a recipe or any guidance from anyone. The dough was mixed and you rolled it into a ball that was the final size of normal Gulab Jamuns that we see in the shops. We ended up with a Football sized Jamun instead of the TT ball sized ones. I will never forget the amount we laughed but nevertheless ended up eating half fried, half sugar syrup soaked Jamun. That day, we learned that making any eatable is indeed a rocket science and not just a wish. In any case, the fun and the memories it created was priceless and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

PS: Our Jamun would have broken even this world record for sure. We never knew such a record is possible because we were working very hard to finish whatever we made and it took whole of the birthday

Jokes apart, as we celebrate your 56th birthday, I want to thank you for being the amazing woman that you always were. Your love and support have made me a better person, face and overcome what we thought were unsurmountable challenges and I am eternally grateful to the Divine for every moment we’ve shared.

Lovely Relationship – An Architectural Wonder

Thank you for being supportive in everything that I set out to do, some very risky ones too. You made sure that I had a standing in the society, at work and whatever successes I have in my life, I owe it in big measure to you and our children. Making a mark in the society (outside our workspace or family) in this dog eat dog world is never easy for anyone, but then I am not just another “anyone” – I had you as a pillar of strength. How lucky I should consider myself to be. Thanks for being you!

I have said this to many and probably not to you – I thank God for creating you for me & for who you have been and who you are for all of us, ‘An Angel of our World’.

Happiest birthday and wish you many many more to come. As always here is a song that I specially dedicate to the wonderful companion who was born today, just for US! Happy Birthday mere Humsafar!

Vishwakarma of India’s Skill Development: Dr. Reguraj’s Legacy

Dr. Reguraj didn’t just lead NTTF but laid firm and strong foundation that engineered its future. His 57 year tenure was defined by a future-first philosophy, transforming the institution into a powerhouse of technical skilling.

The Visionary Architect: Building Foundations for the Future.

Dr. Reguraj’s leadership was never about maintaining the status quo. It was about pathbreaking and unconventional foresight. He understood that for India to thrive, its workforce needed to be atleast decades ahead of then industry standards. Today, NTTF stands on the bedrock of his trailblazing initiatives.

1984: Mechatronics Revolution: Decades Ahead of the Curve.

In 1984, the year when Electronics City campus was launched,  the term Mechatronics was virtually unheard in the Indian industrial landscape. Dr. Reguraj saw the convergence of mechanical and electronics engineering long before the market did.

  • Bold Pivot: Facing a market unready for the terminology, Mechatronics, he strategically renamed the course to Electronics. Each one of the 1st batch were picked up like hotcakes by the industry with a huge salary differential, in some cases at par with Engineers from India’s premier Technical Institutions, a bunch of youngster who not only “knew”, but also had ability “to do”.
  • Computer-related programs Notwithstanding internal scepticism and to ensure student employability, all while keeping the core interdisciplinary curriculum intact, he launched Computer and IT related programs outside the main campuses. Proved its worth in the market and then was integrated into the main campuses. Today almost every centre delivers this program which has significantly high amount of takers.
  • Full Circle: Proving his original vision right, NTTF later reintroduced Mechatronics by name becoming the first in India to do so. Today, it remains a marquee program and the gold standard in the skilling domain and has highest enrolment in NTTF.

Learn and Earn Revolution: India’s First Dual System of Education.

Dr. Reguraj was mastermind behind a revolutionary approach that introduced the Dual System of Education to India. Recognizing that classroom settings often lagged behind rapid pace of factory floors, he bridged the gap by allowing trainees to split their time between the institute and the industry.

  • Model with a Difference: It was not just an internship. It was a structured pedagogical shift where theoretical concepts were learnt and immediately implemented and tested by practice in real-world manufacturing environments.
  • Unprecedented success: Acceptability and popularity of this model was unprecedented, offering students financial independence through stipends while they mastered high-end technical skills in the industry.
  • Impact:  The success of this model is best measured by its scale today. Nearly two-thirds of NTTF’s current trainees are enrolled in this model, proving that his blueprint for “hands-on” education remains  most effective solution for India’s skilling challenges.

Beyond Engineering-SPG: Transforming Engineers into Industrial Architects

Dr. Reguraj conceptualized School of Postgraduate Studies (PG School) in 1983 to address a specific structural gap observed in Indian engineering landscape. While NTTF was already famous for its diploma programs, Reguraj realized that the industry was facing a specialization vacuum at the higher echelons of engineering.

  • Industry Ready Engineers: India was producing many general engineering graduates, but lacked specialized production engineering talent. Tool Engineering was not being taught as an organized discipline. He conceptualized PG School to transform general engineers into specialized “Industry-Ready” professionals.
  • Indigenous Tooling Infrastructure: As a founder of the Tool and Gauge Manufacturers Association of India (TAGMA), he understood that high-quality manufacturing requires high-quality tools, dies, and moldswich also means creation of a steady pipeline of skilled tool designers who could handle the complexities of precision manufacturing, which was essential for India to reduce its dependence on imported tooling.
  • Practical knowledge with Theory: He conceptualized PG School not as a traditional academic environment, but as a place where:
    • Real-time tool-making was central to the curriculum.
    • Industry-institute partnership was baseline, ensuring that what students learned on Day 1 could be applied in a factory the next day.

Redefining Plant Engineering (2014-15): Engineering “Complete” Specialist.

While others focused on narrow specialization, Dr. Reguraj introduced Plant Engineering at a time when the concept was considered unthinkable.

  • Concept: A holistic curriculum designed to produce experts who could design, operate, and maintain entire manufacturing plants.
  • Multi-Skilled Edge: By integrating Electrical, Mechanical, Electronics, and Control Engineering into a single discipline, he created a new breed of “Super-Engineers” vital for the modern industrial era.

Technology with a Heart: Inclusive Innovation.

Dr. Reguraj’s legacy isn’t just measured in machinery and curriculum, but in human impact. His commitment to social responsibility ensured that technical excellence was accessible to all. He knew what was lacking in the social landscape of India and ensured that the only intervention addressed those lacks.

  • Rural Quota: While the nation only heard of quota based on Caste, Religion, Region, Language, Dr Reguraj saw a clear Urban-Rural divide in education. He earmarked 50% of available seats in NTTF for candidates from Rural Schools
  • Women Empowerment: Dr Reguraj ensured by his leadership and prescription that it was not merely a slogan. He injected a sense of equality into everyone who walked the corridors of NTTF that if anyone can do it, our women can do it too. Compared to other Institutions, NTTF today has significant percentage of Women across all sections (Trainees, Faculty, Admin Staff)
  • Empowering the Differently-Abled: He pioneered specialized initiatives for Polio-affected individuals, creating pathways to self-reliance.
  • Breaking Barriers: His vision expanded to include comprehensive programs for the Hearing and Speech impaired, as well as those with lower locomotor disabilities, proving that skill knows no physical boundaries.

Legacy of Excellence: Foundation of Today.

The “NTTF Way” is a direct reflection of Dr. Reguraj’s grit. His ability to stand firm against opposition to protect a visionary idea is why thousands of graduates are industry leaders today. He didn’t just teach us how to use tools; he gave us the tools to build a nation. His foresight wasn’t just about predicting technology; it was about preparing people to master it. Dr. Reguraj built more than an institution. He built a sustain