A story that I often use to make a point on using all the resources available at one’s disposal to achieve an objective

I watched my son struggle. He was trying to move a massive, stubborn rock in the yard. He pushed, he strained, he even used a crowbar—his face was a mask of determination and frustration.

The rock wouldn’t budge.

I walked over and asked him, “Son, are you sure you are using all your strength?”

He pushed one last time, even harder than before. Nothing.

Exasperated, he looked up at me. “Yes, Dad! I’ve used everything I have!”

I smiled.

“No,” I replied. “You haven’t asked me to help you.”

The Takeaway

In business, we often face those “stubborn rocks”—the overwhelming projects, the complex challenges, or the seemingly impossible deadlines. We pour our individual effort, time, and stress into the problem, believing success is purely a matter of personal grit.

• Your team is part of your strength. True strength isn’t just your individual capacity; it’s the collective power of your network, your colleagues, your mentors, and your support system.
• Asking for help is a sign of wisdom, not weakness. Great leaders don’t go it alone. They recognize when they’ve hit the limit of their personal resources and strategically leverage the experience and capabilities of others.
• The most efficient path often requires collaboration. Don’t spend hours trying to do something solo that a quick conversation or request for assistance could solve in minutes.

If you’re facing a stubborn rock today, remember this: You haven’t used all your strength until you’ve utilized the resources and people standing right beside you.