As you celebrate another milestone, I proudly affirm that you embody the wisdom, “Be kind, and you will never regret it.” Your kindness and achievements fill us with immense pride. Just days ago, as we marked our 34th wedding anniversary, I reflected on how much joy you have brought to our lives. Even to Vishnu. from the moment he arrived, you became his guiding light, just as you have been for us.
My Pearl in the Land of Pearls
Your philosophy of spreading laughter without harming others speaks volumes of your character. I cherish when, after spending time with underprivileged children, you said, “The world has been far kinder to me than I have been to it.” Such wisdom, my darling!
That summer morning 32 years ago, when I first held you, my life changed forever. At 8:36 AM on April 3rd, our world transformed. The moment our eyes met, I knew our bond was eternal. You were the angel who gave my life new purpose, deepening my love for Aparna. With your humor (which, of course, comes from me!) and a heart full of love (thanks to Amma), you are a perfect blend of all things wonderful.
The embrace we first shared has only grown stronger with time. Your dedication to helping the underprivileged inspires us all. You truly are a Seva Warrior.
A great moment of immense pride was when you became a mother to Anay. Though I had heard of the joy of becoming a grandparent, nothing prepared me for the life-changing moment of holding Anay for the first time.
You are strong, compassionate, and independent, and I am endlessly proud to call you mine. If you ever doubt how beautiful the world is with you in it, just look through my eyes. My only wish for you is that this year brings even greater joy and fulfillment.
Have a wonderful birthday and an incredible year ahead, my darling! And Yes! The biggest gift for any parent, is to have daughter around you and living close to you. I am an extremely fortunate and lucky father to have you as a daughter. If I God were to appear before me and grant me a wish to rewind and let me chart a different course, I would ask Him to bless me the exact journey I had so far with you. Thank you for BEING YOU.
“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” — Robert A. Heinlein
Dearest Aparna,
Happiness evident – When we went to receive our son returning to India after 2.5 years
As we celebrate 34 years of marriage, I am in awe of the incredible journey we’ve shared. These 34 revolutions around the Sun have been filled with joy, challenges, laughter, and tears, all navigated hand in hand. You have been my rock, my confidante, and the love of my life. Celebrating 34 years of marriage with you is a testament to the strength and beauty of a lifelong partnership. Is this milestone just a number for us? No way, it represents years of shared experiences, unwavering support, and a deep bond that has only grown stronger with time.
Love is not about Both Looking at each other, but both looking in same Direction
Thank you for giving me a love so profound that I cannot imagine my life without it. You are the best thing that has ever happened to me and to everyone who is part of our lives. When someone asked me to pick the best moment of these 34 years – I knew they expected a different answer, but I also knew it was impossible to choose a single moment – I realized that 1,07,22,24,000 represents the countless moments of happiness we’ve shared, each one more precious than the last, that every single second with you has been a treasure.
The journey began 34 years ago when two hearts decided to embark on a life together in Dharwad on this day 34 years back and an unseasonal rain. Most of the anniversaries have been like that ever since – a surprise shower. Like in every Indian marriages, early years were filled with excitement and discovery as we navigated the newness of married life. From setting up our home to learning each other’s quirks and habits, these initial years laid the foundation for a strong and enduring relationship – it was a life lesson in action – Opposite values complement each other.
“Looking back, we realized early enough that marriage is a journey filled with love, challenges, growth, and countless memories. As in anyone’s our journey has not always been easy, but your unwavering support and calming presence have seen us through every storm. Even when the boat was rocked, you stood by us, offering reassurance and strength. Your love and dedication have been the foundation of our family, and I am forever grateful for your presence in my life.
His entry into the made family complete, just by himself. Yet another gift impossible with you
If I could go back to 31st March 1991 and relive these 34 years, I wouldn’t change a thing. I would choose you all over again, without hesitation. Your role as a mother, both to our biological and Manasik children, has been nothing short of extraordinary. You have been the silent strength, letting others speak while you listened with a heart full of love. Our journey together has been a testament to the power of love, commitment, and partnership.
No marriage is without its challenges, and ours is no exception. There were times when life tested your resolve, but each challenge only served to strengthen your bond. Whether it was navigating financial difficulties, health issues, or personal disagreements, we faced each obstacle together, never allowing anyone (yes, no one!!!) to crowd the relationship emerging stronger and more united. It was never always easy, but we made it work, together. You may not always see the glass as half full, but you have a unique way of making everyone around you believe in the impossible. For us, it has been a combination of love, respect, communication, and compromise. We have learned to appreciate each other’s strengths and accept each other’s flaws. We grew together, adapting to the changes that life brings and always finding new ways to support and uplift each other.
Our children, Divya and Vishnu, are the greatest testament to our love. They have grown into remarkable individuals, embodying the values and love we have nurtured in our family. Divya’s kindness and Vishnu’s strength are reflections of your unwavering dedication as a mother. Watching them grow and succeed has been one of the greatest joys of our lives, and I am grateful every day for the family we have built together.
The Quads – in thick and think of life
As we celebrate 34 years of marriage, it is also a time to look ahead to the future. There are still many adventures to be had, dreams to be pursued, and memories to be made. The journey is far from over, and with you by my side, I can face whatever the future holds with confidence and joy. What an incredible 41 years it has been since we first met, and 34 years as my beloved co-passenger in life. I am eternally grateful for you, my irreplaceable “better half.” Here’s to many more years of love, laughter, and togetherness.
Here is a the song as a tribute to you that was discovered a while ago and but bookmarked as a tribute to be posted today
Today marks a very special day as we celebrate your 25th birthday! It’s hard to believe how quickly time has flown by. This year is even more special because we get to celebrate together after three long years.
From the moment you were born, you brought immense joy and love into our lives. Watching you grow from a curious child into a remarkable young man has been a privilege. Your determination, kindness, and passion for life continue to inspire everyone around you.
Remember the countless hours spent getting dragged along by Di, stealing some coins for a neighbourhood servant, getting emotionally blackmailed by Amma, crying your heart out saying you don’t want to go to boarding school (after watching Tare Zameen par) and most importantly the blabber about Honda Makiva – wondering where you even conjured up this name (Have posted this video towards the end), Looking back, amazed that you were able to create an audio content out of nothing and quite decent language for that age. Cannot forget after a nice treatment innocently asking if you can join me for an evening walk or asking if we can go to the beach (taking me on guilt trip).
Those were the days filled with laughter and endless curiosity. Somethings that stood out
Academic Achievements: Your dedication to your studies has always been commendable. Especially your uncanny ability to set expectations very low (to the extent, saying you may even flunk the exams and then getting highest marks in the school in some subjects (BTW! Did you meet the teacher who said she will jump off the terrace if you score highest?) From excelling in school to pursuing higher education, your hard work has paid off in so many ways. To appearing on the University BEST board and reserved to the extent you did not want to sign consent for use of your photograph on the promos. Being humble to the degree of fault?
Moment that would make any parent very Proud
Yes! I am talking about this banner
On a serious note! You have made us extremely proud at all steps and we thank the the Divine for this wonderful gift. Returning to India to meet me after 2 years to pursue your internship here to me personally was the Biggest Gift that I could ever ask for!
Welcome Back!!! Motherland and Mother calling
Over the years, you’ve faced challenges with resilience and grace. Your ability to overcome obstacles and emerge stronger is truly admirable. Landing up two opportunities as you you returned must have done a world of good to your already soaring confidence – a luxury to reject an offer is something not many aspirants can dream of in these days. You are worth tons of gold for anyone.
Today, we celebrate not just your birthday, but the incredible person you have become. As we celebrate this milestone, let’s cherish the memories we’ve created and look forward to the adventures that lie ahead.
As you step into this new chapter of your life, may you continue to pursue your dreams with the same passion and determination. May you find happiness in every moment and success in all your endeavors. Remember, no matter where life takes you, you will always have a home filled with love and support.
Here’s to you, Vishnu! May your 25th year be filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable experiences. Happy Birthday! May God and Pujya Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar ji’s blessings be upon you at every moment of your life ahead.
From all of us!!!
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Signing off with yet another one! He must be enjoying watch these
